Does true Christian Community exist? Is it even possible in this day and age? Is it possible in an age when few seem to value honesty or love or correction or sincerity? We love farce and entertainment and show, but we run from instruction,correction or discipline.

Is true Christian Community possible in an age when mothers refuse to tell their daughters, "No!" and fathers are more afraid of thier wive's disdain than their son's destruction and thus also refuse to say the wonderful word, "No" to thier off-spring?

Does anyone one love enough to give corection? Does anyone love enough to receive it? Without honest love we make Hell a closer reality for one another than Christian Community.

We ignore "Faithful are the wounds of a friend" and we surround ourselves with others who enable us in our disfunction, we embrace those who smile to our face and lie behind our backs., We fire pastors we disagree with, with no regard for their welfare or the future of their families. Years of service is forgotten or ignored while we gather to ourselves lying teachers so please our itching ears.

Is Christian Community even a possibility anymore? I sometimes wonder; God wants it, His Son died for it and the Holy Spirit desires to epose it, but He isn't going to force it upon us and I don't see many who desire it.
What Am I Doing?

I went to be at midnight, it's now 5:30 am and I am sitting in Starbucks on my day-off, what am I doing? Well, I am doing the only part of life that feels like ministry to me anymore; I am mentoring. I do this at least three days a week and I sure do hope it's making a difference in the lives of the men I meet. I know it makes a difference in mine. For nearly ten years I got up at 6am and wrote a daily devotion; thousands of essays written upon the Word of God. I don't know how they benefitted no one else, but they certainly built m faith and the absence of this discipline has weakened my faith (faith comes by hearing and hearing by the Word of God). Life has been crowding out all but what is the most vital to my own existence as of late.

 

This is a strange time in which we live; an age of shattered relationships, non-commitment and individual asphyxiation; isolating ourselves to the point of suffocating the life out of our very beings. We live much of our lives based upon felt-needs, perceived “needs”; where we work, where we worship, how we live; many of us live to be entertained – What any I going to do today to have fun” we ask, rather than what ought we do today to prepare for tomorrow. We have become an id driven society of relaxation and rest rather than one of hard work and commerce. This explains the flippant way we discard relationships both inside and outside of the church. Our relationships as well as our worship experiences, as well as the rest of our lives are based upon “what will please me today?” rather than what do I need or what commitment have I made?

What we miss, in chasing our perceived needs, we neglect our real needs. In chasing after what we desire to do, we neglect the productive, life-giving things that we need to do. We recognize our innate need for community and relationship, but such endeavors require hard work and commitment and most of us with our pleasure mentality find it easier to continually shop around for the greener grass of every aspect of life rather than relax in the meadow where God has placed us. Jesus said, “HE WHO TRIES TO FIND HIS LIFE WILL LOSE IT, WHILE THOSE WHO ARE WILLING TO LOSE THEIR LIVES FOR MY SAKE WILL FIND IT.” The work of our salvation was finished on Calvary; the cost for our salvation was paid in Gethsemane, for it was there that Jesus made the hard commitment to do His Father’s will.

Ill you commit to doing the hard work of community and relationship or will you continue to look for the greener pastures which do not exist?

What If . . . . . .
 

What would happen if....this Sunday people went to church because they really desired to be there and not out of obligation? What if the Preacher confessed his sins to the congregation and encouraged them to do the same? What if the people in the congregation who are angry with each other and not speaking would go to each other and repent and ask forgiveness of one another (regardless of who started the argument or hard feelings)? What would happen if every person who ever left another church in anger returned and apologized to their former congregation and fellow congregants? What if every church leader refused to manipulate, control or coerce another single person? What if every board, committee and pastor would voluntarily surrender "their authority" and sought the priesthood of every believer? What if we dismissed our “service as usual" attitudes and dismissed the praise bands, put away the hymnals, turned-off the projectors, and threw away our sermons? What would happen if we removed all the chairs or pews and bowed together, waiting for the move of God? What would happen if we left our church buildings altogether and went out into our community to do community service of some kind? What do you suppose would happen if we refused to pass the collection plate and instructed people to give only as they could cheerfully give? What if believers everywhere would join together in Jesus' Name and do NOTHING but wait?

Would we call such an event church?

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The Treasure of Friendship

 

Faithful are the wounds of a friend; profuse are the kisses of an enemy.  Proverbs 27:6  

Friends are like bananas, when they come in bunches, they quickly go bad. Like “love”; friend is a word that is overused. True friends don’t come in bunches, in fact if you find one or two sincere friends in this life you are entirely blessed. 

As a young man I wore my heart on my sleeve and “fell in love” with nearly every girl I ever had any kind of a relationship with. I was usually certain by the second date that we would eventually be married. This behavior started long before I was in school and continued until I found my true love in my wife. 

As a man, I have made the same fatal error with acquaintances. I always assume that each acquaintance is going to be my sincere friend for life; that our friendship is unconditional and a sacred trust. I have spent most of my adult life being repeatedly hurt by people whom I have cared about more than they care about me.  

An honest friend speaks the truth in love to you; an honest friend doesn’t tell you how wonderful you are, when you’re not, but an honest friend is equally committed to being a part of your life for the remainder of their lives. A sincere friend, like a sincere love, cares for you even when they don’t care for how you are being. What a rare gift it is to find people who will allow you to invest in their lives and in return are willing to invest in yours. 

We would all do well to remember the words of Jesus, “ Woe to you when all men speak well of you, for their fathers used to treat the false prophets in the same way.”  Luke 6:26  

Empty kisses leave behind broken hearts. When I think of my friends, my sincere friends; the ones who go back years and years, I don’t think of their kind words or their flattery or their praise; what I know, even when we don’t see one another for months or years is that when we do,  we pick-up right where we left off. In as much as NOTHING can separate us from the Love of God, there is Nothing that destroys a real friendship. 

Just as the desire for love may leave you with a broken heart, the desire for sincere friendship will do the same, but in both cases, the treasure you find is worth all the pain endured in seeking.

 

I have spent the past few months reading the book JOHN ADAMS by David McCullough. It is an interesting history as much personal as public in to the life of a truly great patriot without whom we would have never become a nation.

 

The unexpected treasure of this volume is the unavoidable contrast between Mr. Adams and Thomas Jefferson. In my estimation, both men have their place in history; Adams as the ultimate Patriot son and Jefferson as the equal politician.

 

Men signed the Declaration of Independence, both men desired to create a free nation, throughout public life Jefferson often undermined the friendship and the cause of liberty by selfish ambition and Mr. Adams on occasion publicly called Mr. Jefferson to task for the inconsistencies between his stated beliefs and the life he personally led, but in later years both men expressed great admiration and forgiveness toward one another, both men lived long lives, died on the same day, within hours of one another; July 4th, on the Nations 50th Birthday.

 

Throughout his life Jefferson lived a life of contradictions; he authored the greatest decree of self-government ever put to paper and yet would have been happier had our little republic been more like France, where indeed he spent much of the early years of the Revolution as Ambassador for this nation, often doing little more than soaking-up the culture and bedding whom he might.

While Jefferson wrote “early to bed and early to rise, makes a man healthy, wealthy and wise’, he habit was to party late into the night and sleep in late into the day.

The man wrote so eloquently and rightly wrote of “all men, being created equal”, until his dying day was dependant upon slaves to keep and build his ever-expanding Monticello. During his lifetime, Jefferson freed only six of his slaves, ironically none of them included his concubine or the illegitimate children that her fathered by her.

After his death the remaining slaves were auctioned-off on his front lawn. In spite of coming from means, while Jefferson wrote, “Never a borrower or lender be” he remained heavily in debt his entire life and died over $100.000 in debt, more than everything he owned, including his homes and land were worth.

Soon all that he had, including furnishings, personal effects and his beloved Monticello, which had fallen into disrepair were all sold far below their value in a feeble attempt to erase his debt.

Jefferson at times expressed great faith in the God of Heaven, at other times and as demonstrated by his life considered himself something other than a Christian; what the man truly believed is impossible to say. At the end of his life he expressed regret and wished he could live life over; Jefferson died a broken man and wrote his own epitaph, which he had put into stone and  placed upon his grave, it reads;


Here Was Buried
 THOMAS JEFFERSON
Author of the Declaration of American
Independence,
Of the Statute of
Virginia for Religious Freedom,
And Father of the University of Virginia 

Throughout his life Adams lived a life of Christian devotion and public service; he singed the greatest decree of self-government ever put to paper and fought for self-government of the people, by the people and for the people, although such sentiment wouldn’t be put into those eloquent words until generations later by another truly great President. Adams served his country as Ambassador, but was not a stranger to loss or toil. He and his family sacrificed much for the ideals alive in his heart. When others including Jefferson might have quit the experiment of a free nation, it was the zeal and determination of John Adams that would not be compromised. The man worked tirelessly, spent years apart from his family and home in order to secure the future of a struggling colt of a nation.  

The man not only believed as Jefferson did that slavery was wrong, he often fought Jefferson over the subject of slavery and indeed refused to keep slaves, believing with all his heart; “that all men are created equal.” Until his dying day Adams fought “the evil of slavery” at every turn.  

Adams was not only a professed Christian man; he was a moral man whose life ever reflected his devotion to his God, family and nation.  

Never a rich man, always worried about making ends meet, John Adams did not accumulate many material good during his lifetime, however when he died, his net worth was approximately $100,000. He left a hardy estate to his heirs.  

He was buried modestly and his family refused a funeral held at public expense at the State House for they wanted no part of what could appear a “forcing” of public tributes; they instead heeded the expressed wishes of their father.    

Adams always expressed great faith in the God of Heaven, in spite many, many personal tragedies. By the end of his life he had attained an ability to see God and His blessings in every situation. Once when a huge winter storm fell trees and buried New England in ice and snow, he looked across his battered homeland and rejoiced at the beauty of the crystals which he thought shone brighter than diamonds. He lauded the beauty of the white carpet which covers all the ugliness beneath. When questioned by Jefferson whether he would like to begin life again, Adams replied that he was quit content to leave this old world and ready to see the next.

 Adams had an epithet written for his great-great grandfather; the first Mr. Adams who set foot upon American soil, but did not prepare anything to boast of his own attainments.

 I sum-up the lesson of the life of John Adams with the eternal truth it is better to give than to receive. “Men who aspire to greatness must write their own epithets, posterity remembers sincere men who are truly great.”  Gary Holman

 

 

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“THE CHURCH” is Not “ONE LARGE MOUTH” that God speaks through. The “CHURCH” has not only “ONE LARGE EAR” that hears what He is saying. The “CHURCH” is not “THE ONLY EYE” that sees Him moving or “THE ONE HEART” that feels His presence. The true living “CHURCH” of the living God is not “ONE HAND” that reaches out or “ONE BIG FOOT” that moves her forward.

True worship is NOT a spectator event; where ONE MAN performs, while all others listen. NO! The “CHURCH” is all of God’s People; His royal Priesthood speaking the truths shown to them by God; listening for His voice, seeing where and how He moves; multiple hearts intoned to God, feeling His presence, reaching out together in compassion; staying in step with The Holy Spirit.

The platform in the church should be the platform of God’s ideals which lifts Him up rather than a physical one that raises one believer above the rest. Isn’t Pastor be a gift rather than a position? The Word of God does NOT say “AND HE GAVE THESE POSITIONS . . .”

Finally “THE CHURCH” is NOT a building. God has never asked for temple made with human hands; He says that you and I are to be His dwelling place. Wherever we gather together in one place, that is “THE CHURCH”, that’s where HE lives.

Gary Says,

Favourite Quotations:

Preach the Gospel; use words if you must!

 

About me:

 

"I love God, but I hate religion and I'm tired of Church as it has been taught and practiced. I love discovering God in the world around me. I love finding His truth in music, art and creation. I don't believe in tags of "secular" or "Christian" such as in art, movies or music. I am not interested in making God over in my own image. I find most sinners to be honest and most "christians" to be pretentious; just the same I really do love people, rich and poor , educated or not and I believe friendship to be a sacred gift that should be preserved, protected and honored at all cost. Pure faith is loving God and others just as they are. "

 

Has been in Ministry over 35 years; founded New Hope Community Fellowship almost 12 years ago.

Family and Friends, 

Just over two years ago our church family was over $20,000.00 in debt with dropping attendance and under a general cloud of discouragement.

God spoke to my heart to challenge us as a church to become debt-free so that we could become more effective in reaching the hurting and the lost. The mission seemed so impossible that we lost a couple more families. As the church shrank, I felt the need to do away with the inter-structure of the” church"; we simply didn't need an administrative team if there really wasn't anything to administrate.

As God always does, we took the first step and He has accomplished what would have otherwise been impossible without Him. Little did I realize that God would restructure our whole ministry and call me into bi-vocational ministry, but He did. He also called us to move and in short order called us to move a second time; first to lower rent and then by the generosity and the loving support of a pastor friend of mine (an extended period of  "NO RENT").  This all started once we committed to writing the church tithe check each Sunday befroe we ever left the building, this,  as much as Jim and I giving back our salaries has allowed all offerings to the ministry to be divided between touching lives of those who are hurting and needy and debt reduction.

OUR CHURCH IS NO DEBT- FREE!!!!!!!!!!

What does the future hold? Now that the debt is paid, will Jim and I "go back on salary?" Will we rent a bigger building or buy a place? I know we won't return to salary and God will need to pick us up and move us again, but as of now, where we are is our promised land; I want to pour every dime and every spare moment into broken lives; we want to build people, not a ministry. We want to lift-up the Name of Jesus so that those who have yet to come to Him will have the opportunity. Other ministries have supported us TO ENABLE US to be the hands and the feet to reach the hurting where they are.  

God's Word says, "Give, and it shall be given to you; good measure, pressed down, and shaken together, and running over,  SHALL MEN GIVE INTO YOUR BOSOM. For with the same measure that you mete with it shall be measured to you again."

When God’s people all come into unity caring more about the building people than building their “Own Ministries”, God is gloried and the lost are reached and the hurting (within and outside of the church” are healed. Jesus said, ‘IF I BE LIFTED-UP, I WILL DRAW ALL MEN UNTO ME”.

 

Join me in thanking God for our brothers and sisters in Christ who have allowed God to work through them to accomplish this first step toward our greater vision. Amen

 

Gary


 

Pastor Rick Warren says today,

 "NEVER follow a pastor who belittles other’s success,doubts other's motives,or criticizes other's efforts 4 Christ. (Rom.14:4) Who are you who judge another's servant?"

Allow me to say Amen! and say it, a different way, "If your preacher puts other churches down, critisizes other ministries, speculates why others do what they do for Christ or are critical of what other pastors, churches or christians are doing for Jesus; RUN! GET OUT OF THAT CHURCH! GET AWAY!"

I served nearly 20 years under such a a pastor; I was abused spiritually, emotionally and financially. Until God opened my eyes, I didn't see all of the spiritual abuse that was the security blanket wrapped around and interwoven throughout that church. Deception breeds deception; a little "Right" can help us overlook so much that is "Wrong".

Here are TEN SIGNS of Spiritual Abuse that we should see, The Leader;

1. “Hears” God for you. God apparently “goes through” him/her to speak to you. (This requires a sense of superiority – from him or her and is often framed as being “more mature,” and a sense of being “less” from you.)

2. Alienates (shuns, ignores) you if you do not adhere to his/her guidance, leadership, or authority. (This is usually VERY subtle – so it is easy to deny.)

3. Suggests that rejection of his/her “higher understanding” is done so at your spiritual or even physical peril. (You will hear things like, “Be careful. You will move yourself from the covering and protection of God.”)

4. Rewards your obedience with inclusion, and punishes your questioning or resistance with withdrawal. (Compliance gets stroked, resistance gets struck!)

5. Demands “cathartic” honesty. Unless you spew out every detail of your life you must be hiding or withholding something (and that “something” will, of course, impede your spiritual development).

6. Lavishes you with praise, acceptance, and understanding when you are “good” and “pushes” you away when you are “bad.”

7. Is apparently fixated on the use of titles like reverend, pastor, elder and cannot appear to relax in the company of “ordinary” mortals. The issue is not in the use of legitimate titles (or robes or religious garb) – it is that identity seems impossible without the titles or the trappings.

8. Leaves a trail of cut-off relationships. Usually in the trail are those who refuse to bow, to submit, to stand in awe of, to be thoroughly entranced by, the will of the pastor, the leader or the friend. Always regard with suspicion or caution leaders who are cut off or alienated from members of their family, especially their parents.

9. Lives from a “for me/or against me,” “black/white,” “all/or nothing” platform of “relationships.”

10. Genuinely sees God’s Call so zealously, so fervently that any signs of resistance are seen as the expressions of The Enemy or an enemy – thus, relationships are expedient (disposable) in the light of getting on with God’s work.

Such leaders are broken, as we all are, but lead (many sincerely) out of their insecurity - The Abused often become Abusers. The greatest gift of God is His mighty love and His unconditional love should be evident in the life of those who lead for Him. Amen!

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